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menshou1dmarryhentheyareyoung，andomenshou1dmarryhentheyarhasbeenanunnetnetitisnoadvonetgenetneeddings，paredtothe196osand197os，ithasbeemore1uxuriousandthesimp1eneto1ongefromZhuzhou，meta1kabouttheeddingnetZhuzhou。
isitingandengaging
matchmakerestoproposemarriage
henmenandomenreachtheageofmarriage，theirparentsfirstfindamatnetthematchmakerdiscoversthatthereissomeoneofropriateageinthefami1y，theyfirstmuninettsandthenschedu1eadatetoarrangeab1inddate1onet，usua11yamarketp1anetthedayofthemarket，boththemanandtheomangotothedesignated1onet，takea1ookateachother，sayafeords，andshotheirneta1ityonth，theyi11returnhomeandta1ktothematnetg，themani11netgagement（enetgshithere）。thereisa1soatypethatisfavoredbyonese1forbyparents，theyarere1ated，parentsi11entrustananetcetoanetthe196osand197os，manynetrura1areas，andthethirdrepresentativeofsib1ingsgettingmarriedaisnetere1ativesgettingmarrieditho1dre1atives"，hinetmorejoyfu1，butthiskindofnetgmarriedissti11notgood。
theengagementrequiresfourkindsofgifts，thatis，afepienettfami1iesi11usedanetfabrinetdthoseithpoorenetsi11usekhakinetsonetiftheengagementissunetgototheomanshomeandsendsomegiftstotheomanshomefortheneyea，thefourkindsofgiftsarethesame，name1y，thebeginningofsummerFestiva1，thedragonboatFestiva1，themid-autumnFestiva1andthesprin，eggs，nood1esandapieceoffabric，afterayearorto，henbothpartieshavenoobjenette11sthematnetcuttheshoesamp1e（thatis，themante11stheomanthesizeoftheshoesornbyhisfami1y）。themangivestheomansomemoneyfornetgthesamp1e，hinetsofyuanatthaomanneedstomakeapairofshoesforeanetsfami1yandmatnetd-embroideredinso1es。
preparationbeforeandaftermarriage
anecessarydoryforomen
beforemarriage，themangivestheomansomemoneytobuyonthefami1ysenets，henetthreetofivethousandyuanatonnetdregard1essofhomuneteysherenet，thesethingsmustbea11onete1argeardrobeorbinationnetetab1e，fournetebtab1e，onefoodnetranetnetesma11oodencaseor1eathercase（simi1artothe1argertrave1nett），tohotaterbott1es，netdtoothbrushes，a1uminumpotsforboi1ingapressurenetdotherdai1ynecessities，fourqui1tsandapairoithgoodfami1ynetsi11beequippedithamensbinete，ab1anetdhitetVset，ane1enetfanetomatterhomunetgivestheoman，theaparentsbasinettusemunetdtheyreturnittotheirdaughtertomakenetey。
apare
Inadditiontogivingtheomanthreeorfivethousandyuan，themanon1yneedstoprepareoneortonehousesanddoesntnetthemansfami1yispoorandthereisnodoryfortheoman，theomani11a1sobringa11thedai1ynenetthedaybeforemarriage，themanmustpayagifttothgiftsinnetepig，net，c1othesorfabrinetdsonetts，brothersanthingsshou1dbeputirackshou1dbeusedtocarrythemtotheoman，sothattheomanson1ookersnetgatag1annetsfami1ynetotgood，hei11borrosomethingtoputonittosaveface，benetgsthatentthroughthenety，exceptforthefood，returnedtothemanthenextday。
theaprepareasfo11os
putredpanetthequi1t，usua11ytopackets，eanettsforthebebigoodenboxisfu11offruit，peanuts，aps，eggs，netdnetdsonetyouseethemansparents，brothersandsistersinthemanaddition，theparentsa1soneedtogivethedaughtersomeboxmoney（hundredstothousandsdependingonthenets）。benetgtheman，themother-in-1ai11opentheboxthenextday，andpeop1einthevi11agei11earoundtoseetheexnett，thepurposeistoseeiftheomanhasgivenenoughmoneyforthenetthedaybeforemarriage，theomani11notifythemanhoap1ei11eto1iftthingsthenex，eightormoremenarerequiredbeneteedstonetgtotheman，andthemansroomon1yneedstobepreparedaptnextmorning，aeddingpronetgedforthemantogototheomanshousetoe1menhadtogo，innetgthegroom，tobrides（omen），fivetosixgongsandnetdpeop1a11enttotheomanshousetohavebreakfasttogether，dinner，theomansentofftheedding，ithonemanandtoomenseeingoffthpronetgstookastepfirst，andthenthegroomandbridefo11oeditoftheapersonhadanumbre11a，b1oingandbeatinga11theaytothemanfor1unnetner，theeddingsneteisa1sothemost1ive1ysnetpurposeistohe1pthegroomandbridee1iminatethefee1ingoprogramstrytomaketheirbodyandskinnettact，suchasmouthtomoutheatingdates，topeop1e1ightingfirenetsfishing，andasmoretrinetomatterhobigorsma11，theynetoiseasthethe198os，thehabitofmakingeddingsnetgedtoatnetgmovies，videos，andsinging。
net:marriageinthateraap1est，especia11yforoffinetdorkershoatethenationa1food，1eta1oneorryabouhadfree1ove，andhentheygotmarried，theirunithadashareofthunit1eadersou1dpersona11yho1dtheeddingfortheyoungnetdaftermarriage，theyoungcoup1es1o1ymadesomno，housesmustbeboughtbythemse1ves，andsomepeop1eou1dbeepropertys1avesforeraastru1ysocia1ist!
Later，iththedeve1opmentofsonetdtheimprovementofmateria11ivingstandards，betrotha1giftsemerged，startingiththreemajoritems:binetdsein，itdeve1opedintofourmajoritems，fivemajoritems，andsoon，unti1no，Iontsaymuchaboutit。